Reflections by Milla van der Burgh, CEO of Kindiedays and a mother of a 6-year-old boy in a Finnish preschool.
“They had a good day. Ate well and joined in the activities.”
These familiar, useful updates come up at pickup time. Yet they leave much of a child’s day untold. What sparked their curiosity? What did they discover? What made them proud?
These moments give parents something meaningful to connect with—and a starting point for conversation.
At a recent Finnish early childhood education seminar, Karoliina Purola explored how teachers can support families’ involvement. One distinction stayed with me: taking part does not necessarily mean feeling involved.
A parent can attend an event or read every update and still feel that their perspective has little place in their child’s early education. Meaningful involvement grows when families feel heard, recognise that their knowledge of their child matters, and have opportunities to contribute.
Everyday observations open the conversation
Teachers know a child through play, friendships and everyday experiences in the early learning setting. Parents know them at home and within their closest relationships. Bringing these perspectives together can deepen everyone’s understanding.
Specific observations help that exchange happen.

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